Thursday, 24 September 2015

ये पेड़

It feels good to stumble upon one's own old and lost creation....I found this poem handwritten on a piece of paper and tucked silently between the pages of an old diary. I read it and thought to imprint this in my digital diary, before it gets dissolved in the past.
Here:-


हवा के झोंको से मदमस्त हो
लहलहाता है ये पेड़,
बारिश की उन छोटी छोटी बूंदो को
अपने ही पत्तों पाकर
इतराता है ये पेड़ ।

मज़बूत तने के बल पर
विशालकाय हो खड़ा
स्वाबलंबन दर्शाता है ये पेड़ ।

अपनी असंख्य शाखाओं पर
अनगिनत पक्षियों के घरोंदे संभाले
मदद  के भाव को जगाता है ये पेड़ ।

हर ऋतु के साथ बदलकर
बीतते हुए वक़्त में भी
बदलाव को बाहें खोल अपनाता है ये पेड़ ।

भंवरों की गुंजन
नव शिशु पक्षियों का क्रंदन
सभी का साया बना है ये पेड़ ।

हवा के झोंको से या
तूफानों के थपेड़े से
निस्तब्ध हो सब सहकर
सहिष्णुता का अबोध ज्ञान दे जाता है ये पेड़ ॥

Photo Credits: fotosearch.com 

Wednesday, 23 September 2015

Red Bloom

I woke up to a morning surprise, a red beauty glowing bright in my balcony. Oh, I have been waiting since one week for it to bloom- a gift given to me by my sister in law who knows how eager I am to have my balcony garden!

Rising in the morning,
amidst green foliage-
red blooms.

Seeing this red hibiscus flower blooming out of the clay pot elated me and the sweet memories of childhood whirled me past, visuals coming frame by frame that only my eyes could see. How lovely it was- the verandah in my house at Agra used to be laden with shrubs and trees bearing pomegranate, guava, papaya, banana, fig. I vividly recall how popular our fig (Ficus Carica)  trees used to be. Not only friends/people from neighbourhood but strangers seeing the fruit laden tree in the garden, used to come asking for its fig fruits, which is well known for its medicinal values (fresh figs contain adequate levels of some of the anti-oxidant 
vitamins such as vitamin A, E, and K, quite helpful in controlling cancers, diabetes, degenerative diseases and infections). Oh, I miss those bright 
yellow and orange coloured marigolds which grew profusely in a row, outlining the garden from one side; and then there were other flowers of all colours- purple, white, yellow, pink and red along with Raat ki Rani to scent the whole garden and its surroundings in the night! I miss tasting those lip smacking Shehtoot (Mulberry) which Baba (my grandfather) used to get from his friend's house during his morning walks! I miss plucking and eating those ripened small guavas with soft pink flesh inside and mischievously stealing the raw mango from a neighbour's tree! As a kid, I used to learn my lessons strolling in the garden, playing with the leaves, smelling the flowers. Yes, I miss that cornucopia of our garden! Gardening was so much fun!

Bright, vibrant and with all their hue, plants have the power to transcend energy, freshness and put vigour into your soul. Flowers beaming in your garden, terrace or balcony not only have an aesthetic appeal but also infuses the heart with happiness. No photograph, video or game can give the joy of walking on the grass in your garden, seeing the green foliage or touching the soft petals of colourful flowers or smell of that wet soil or mere sight of fresh fruits/vegetables laden plants.

I feel lucky to have grown up to such a beautiful garden, close to nature and imbibing a sense of sharing and sustainability. Many of us, were lucky to experience the joys of home grown fruits, vegetables and herbs. But my heart goes out to the coming generation, the kids who are tech savvy and smart but miss on these simple joys. The space constraints in our urban houses have drawn distances between us and nature. But a willing desire and intent can bring us closer to our childhood memories, can help us make kids feel these simple joys. I think it's time to revive gardening and make it cool, develop interest and spread the benefits & joys of urban garden. 

Little effort can give you perennial joy, pep up the spirit when you are sipping your morning tea/coffee while watching that flower bloom! 
For me, as of now, I am immersed in the beauty of my Red Bloom :-)







Tuesday, 24 February 2015

A stroke of Serendipity!!

A fortunate stroke of serendipity pulled me out of  the dark slumber of gloominess! The reason of gloomy and pessimist that I had turned into was typically the subject "marriage"! My age was becoming a concern for my parents, with 'unrelated' relatives/ uncles & aunts, poking directly or indirectly, with a most personal question at the center of gravity - "when are you getting married?" I or my parents don't seem to have an answer to that. Their desperation and my frustration made me push into a zone where marriage started appearing to be a societal obligation. The dreamer that I am, I was scared of being devoid of my dreams and ambitions. I somehow never got completely aligned with the process of typical arranged marriage, where you are asked to marry someone for life without knowing that you will be yourself or not..where you stop living and are only left to adjust...where you don't feel that connection...

I don't know if my feelings can be contained by a four letter word tagged as "love", but I am sharing this story of my life here, for you to believe in Serendipity.. 

It was late evening and I got a mail in my inbox on 31st December, 2014. This was from a matrimonial site, informing me that I have a got a friend request from Ankit. I viewed his profile and accepted it without having any deep thought. It had become quite customary for me to go through numerous profiles of prospective grooms and try to fit them or fit myself into their checklist. A not so effective and not so hopeful process. But I had no hint that New Year was bringing in new beginnings! It was a lazy afternoon and 2015 was only 3 days old, when my phone rang and I heard him for the first time. A short call with matrimonial focused approach got extended to dedicated two day long continuous Google hangout sessions. The concoction that brewed between us was aromatic enough to be not missed without drinking... Never had we felt like this ever before, an effortless connect, a lasting bond, appreciation of each other's dreams, flawless friendship..above all, a staunch desire knitted with strong hope to be together! We had never met, never seen each other in person, but we were fallen for each other! How old school of thought, you might shrug off..but it is serendipity! It can happen all of a sudden, just like one click. 

There were multiple inter sectional thoughts..how can "too good to be perfect" things happen with me? How can I feel that insane urge of talking to someone whom I barely know and discovered his existence not more than 2 days? Why was that sudden adrenaline rush on seeing his messages/off liners? Why did I share the dreams and secrets that lay hidden in the deepest closet of my heart? Why did I take that leap of faith? I certainly don't seem to have an answer even today, but I hear the melodies of violin in the backdrop even while I write this, which made me stay afloat, which made me believe him, which gave me a belief of building our dreams together!!

With us, our families took a leap of faith, and we got engaged on 24th January this year with their blessings. As we complete one month of this journey that has just begun...I thought to share my story with you, because- 
Under the fortunate stroke of Serendipity....good things do happen..!!





Closures and Beginnings

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